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Well looking for an author, british, Motivational and self help….?

admin — Thu, 09 Sep 2010 02:08:07 +0000

…If I remember correctly his given name is Nigel?
The book I am looking for has a black and white picture of the author, the title is in rather big white letters and not very long. I lost it just after I started reading it. It has quotes by famous people on the bottom right corner of each odd numbered page. Preface by Jack Canfield.

The Impact Code: Live the Life you Deserve by Nigel Risner. I can’t see whether it has a preface, but there is a quote from Jack Canfield on the cover: "Nigel has an awesome presence which touches and transforms people’s lives."

Also, it does seem to have quotes at the bottom of the odd numbers pages, as you describe.

From the back cover:
About the Author
Nigel Risner’s inspirational and empowering messages excite audiences throughout the world. He delivers over a hundred talks a year in his unique, energetic style to corporations and associations. Prior to motivating audiences, he ran a successful finance company, being one of the youngest CEO’s in the City of London at 26 years old. Nigel has developed a unique style, which is much loved by the tens of thousands of people who have seen him deliver his IMPACT presentation or have purchased one of his self-published books. As the only motivational speaker in Europe to have been awarded Speaker of the Year from both The Academy of Chief Executives and The Executive Committee, Nigel is a respected author, television presenter and a prolific speaker. Nigel’s workshops and keynote speeches are results-oriented, challenging his listeners to expand their horizons, embrace the opportunities that await them, and dare to dream of achievements which seemed impossible before.

Will Smith shares his secrets of success

admin — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 08:21:18 +0000

http://accelerateme.net – Will Smith shares his success philosophy

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Need help with confidence/self-esteem issues/getting back into life?

admin — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 21:42:03 +0000

I’ve never really wanted to achieve things in life. I just went to school because my parents told me to and I’m like really anti-social/low confidence/self-esteem issues. As a result my friends always pick on me and call me things like pussy and vaj. I don’t want to live honestly, but apparently I have to. I have some mental issues like my head is empty I think.

I took a leave from college because I went in a downward depression spiral and my grades went wayyyy down. I think I have to you know, go back to college. I’m really stupid and I don’t know why we have to go to school, but my parents said I have to. I have like no friends and no connections with people, pretty much a loner and have really low self-esteem so I don’t know how to talk.

How can I get my confidence back up and I left a really bad impression on people. Like they think I’m some creepy/weirdo with issues so I can’t really talk to anyone anymore. Should I even go back to college. It’s a decent university and I have like 40 units completed.
I think I have a borderline personality and like I don’t know how to enjoy life. I also have really bad anxiety and depression and social anxiety to the point where my hands start trembling and I can’t mutter a word.

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You can accelerate your learning and overcome social difficulties by following the method and link included.

Self controlled Learning Acceleration
How to learn more easily
By Generalist
In order to learn more easily and widely, it is helpful to reduce internal chatter.
This can be accomplished without paying for seminars and coaches.
At a SGI-USA meeting, I found out that the method for mastering the mind and quieting chatter had been summarized as Nam Myoho Renge Kyo by the monk Nichiren. He lived in 13th century Japan. Here is the, "just add hot water" version of his doctrine. This method is so deep and thorough; it rewires the brain to be more rational and capable. Google, “neuronal+plasticity” to learn how brain rewiring works.
1-No matter how frantic life seems, there is calming continuity in essential truth to be found. That’s Kyo.
2-Causes produce effects. Sometimes this is not obvious because of time gaps between the cause and the appearance of effects. That’s Renge.
3-Life is both physical and non-physical. That’s Myoho.
4-I needed to organize my mind according to what’s real in order to win. That’s Nam.
I started to recite Nam Myoho Renge Kyo by myself and with SGI members at meetings. It took some time to discard my cynicism, even when I got phenomenal results in my life and felt completed. Eventually, I became more confident and able to consistently exhibit much greater learning and memory capabilities
Source(s):
My own experiences as a result of reciting the formula and working with SGI friends for peace, culture and happiness

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My best friend has low self esteem what can I do to help?

admin — Mon, 06 Sep 2010 13:57:55 +0000

Ok my best friend is really pretty if I wasnt in a relationship I would date her. She has self esteem issues though. Her boyfriend beats on her and she still stays with him. I confronted him one time and we got into a fight. In the end we both got arrested and she didn’t talk to me for a whole month. I told her she could do so much better but whenever I bring it up she curses me out. I just don’t want to see her get hurt. I don’t call as much because it hurts me. We’ve been friends for over 10 years. She said he hits her because he loves her. I told her thats not love and a real man would never hit a woman. What should I do?

she’s in denial.
abuse is NEVER out of love, and you need to let her know that nothing will get better if she doesn’t realize that.
She should hear that from someone who truly loves her, like you.
Make her feel empowerd whenever you’re with her, talk to her, boost her up, and maybe suggest she take some defense classes. Maybe this’ll help her get out of this rut, give you some peace, and keep that scumbag she calls a boyfriend, let alone a person she cares for, at bay.

How To Overcome Shyness and Social Anxiety – Social Anxiety Secrets. Shyness Self Help Cure

admin — Sun, 05 Sep 2010 18:13:11 +0000

http://bit.ly/pEBaX How To Overcome Shyness and Social Anxiety with Social Anxiety Secrets, an eBook. Also with a few bonuses to help you with Overcoming shyness & Social Anxiety. Please click through the above link here to order, you have to order through this link to receive my bonus! http://bit.ly/pEBaX

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i want to go self employed as a support worker and i need help to get some clients, can anyone help?

admin — Sat, 04 Sep 2010 21:07:41 +0000

i work for a big care company but i need to be careful i dont get accused of poaching clients, should i speak to social workers? is there anyone else i should be speaking to as well?

what insurances do i need? is it public liability insurance?

you’re taking a huge risk
as most clients will want a company and not an individual

Social workers won’t touch you, as they’ll go with recommended and evaluated companies.

apart from PL insurance you’ll also need an enhanced disclosure
and references,and then just advertise in local papers etc,once you are a registered company,with everything in place

Self-Help books for teen girl/young adult?

admin — Fri, 03 Sep 2010 10:55:22 +0000

Not the cheesy/unrealistic situations. I’m looking through amazon, but I haven’t found any books that meet my standards. Help?
My friend bought me three of the Chicken soup books in 5th grade. I have two teen ones and a kid one – they’re pretty terrible. I mean, she loved them, but for me they were just too fake.

I like it when you say you don’t like these Chicken soup books.

If you want to achieve something with your life, it’s better to forget about your age and go for the real stuff. That’s my view. Sooner or later, you’re going to need them. Why not get a head start over your peers, if you mean business.

To become health, wealthy and wise, you need to take care of the four aspects of life: Health, Wealth, Relationships, and Contribution to society.

So, I’m going to forget your age and recommend a few appropriate books from my 2,000 personal library, and you take your pick from them, OK?

Reader’s Digest, The Complete Manual of Fitness and Well-being, a lifetime guide to self-improvement. workouts for men and women, eating for health, self-scoring fitness quizzes, dealing with stress, looking your best, sexuality, feeling good, staying young, treatments and therapies.

Now, Discover Your Strengths, the revolutionary program that shows you how to develop your unique talents and strengths – and those of the people you manage, by Marcus Buckingham & Donald Clifton

The Magic of Dialogue, transforming conflict into cooperation, by Daniel Yankelovitch, based on the open minded attitude that everyone brings a piece of the solution to problems.

Rich Dad Poor Dad, what the rich teach their kids about money – that the poor and middle class do not, by Robert Kiyosaki, choosing idea-intensive and capital intensive activities over labor-intensive activities.

Make Real Money On The Internet, by Stephen Pierce

Dream Crafting, the art of dreaming big, the science of making it happen, by Paul Levesque and Art McNeil, five skills for achieving any goal

The Power of Full Engagement, managing Energy, not time, is the key to high performance and personal renewal, by Jim Loehr & Tony Schwartz, achieving corporate success.

The Road Less Traveled, a new psychology of love, traditional values and spiritual growth, by Scott Peck, how to build up character and courage through facing our emotional problems squarely

The 7 habits of Highly Effective People, bringing back character ethics, by Stephen Covey, be proactive, begin with the end in mind, put first things first, think win/win, seek first to understand…then to be understood, synergize, sharpen the saw.

People Skills, how to assert yourself, listen to others, and resolve conflicts, by Robert Bolton,

Make The Right Decision Every Time, how to make the right business and personal decisions confidently, by Roger Dawson

Self Help With Burt Burtonson

admin — Thu, 02 Sep 2010 14:19:22 +0000

Burt Burtonson covers drinking in todays show. What to and not to do while under the influence. This is my first Sketch.

RIP Joel Mendham. It was an honor to call you my friend, and an honor to have you as a part of this video.

Duration : 0:4:25

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How can I help raise her self esteem? And stopped being used?

admin — Thu, 02 Sep 2010 04:33:31 +0000

She is 18, and I’ve been told by a good friend of hers that she has low self esteem, and that many guys have taken advantage of her because of this and treated her like shit. She thinks she has so many physical flaws such as: -a muscular back, big chin, wide hips, pirogi belly. Also wants to get implants to double d’s when she already has nice firm D-cups. –She has the body of a women and doesn’t seem to realize the beauty in that. Tall figure, with great curvy hips and those dimples on the lower back. Very healthy weight and the so called pirogi belly is not fat at all. Just a healthy stomach. She is hard to talk with because she doesn’t like sharing her opinion with anyone scared she may hurt other peoples feelings. She only cares what other people say and think and having a low self esteem doesn’t allow her to see her what a great person she is. –She’s a kind, nice caring person who is nice to everyone except when it comes to herself. How can I help her believe she is pretty and her thoughts and feelings are just as valuable as anybodies.—–I just can’t stand it when these guys are using her just for sex. I don’t want to see it happen anymore.
Forgot to mention that I have told her she is beautiful, she won’t believe it that easily. How else can I help?

Try having a nice conversation with her. Tell her all these things that you’re writing to us here. Not only does she need to be told she’s beautiful, but she needs to know that you’re worried and that what she is doing is not good for her. You need to remind her of the consequences for those actions and what not.
Once you’ve had that talk with her, it is only her who can decide what to do in the end. It is her life and her body.

how do i help my sister to stop self harming?

admin — Wed, 01 Sep 2010 00:35:21 +0000

my sister had a relationship with her step brother. they split and she left home. he now has a new girlfriend and she has taken this really badly. she feels like this new girl is replacing her in the family home and has taken to self harming to make herself feel better. i live 500 miles away and have 3 kids. i am struggling to find ways to help her and am worried sick. what can i do to help?
just to add with regard to my first 2 replies…she has seen her doctor who has told her it cud take 7 months for her to talk to a professional about it and i have been to see her and she has stayed here but it does not seem to help

Take time out and visit her.