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Not the cheesy/unrealistic situations. I’m looking through amazon, but I haven’t found any books that meet my standards. Help?
My friend bought me three of the Chicken soup books in 5th grade. I have two teen ones and a kid one – they’re pretty terrible. I mean, she loved them, but for me they were just too fake.

I like it when you say you don’t like these Chicken soup books.

If you want to achieve something with your life, it’s better to forget about your age and go for the real stuff. That’s my view. Sooner or later, you’re going to need them. Why not get a head start over your peers, if you mean business.

To become health, wealthy and wise, you need to take care of the four aspects of life: Health, Wealth, Relationships, and Contribution to society.

So, I’m going to forget your age and recommend a few appropriate books from my 2,000 personal library, and you take your pick from them, OK?

Reader’s Digest, The Complete Manual of Fitness and Well-being, a lifetime guide to self-improvement. workouts for men and women, eating for health, self-scoring fitness quizzes, dealing with stress, looking your best, sexuality, feeling good, staying young, treatments and therapies.

Now, Discover Your Strengths, the revolutionary program that shows you how to develop your unique talents and strengths – and those of the people you manage, by Marcus Buckingham & Donald Clifton

The Magic of Dialogue, transforming conflict into cooperation, by Daniel Yankelovitch, based on the open minded attitude that everyone brings a piece of the solution to problems.

Rich Dad Poor Dad, what the rich teach their kids about money – that the poor and middle class do not, by Robert Kiyosaki, choosing idea-intensive and capital intensive activities over labor-intensive activities.

Make Real Money On The Internet, by Stephen Pierce

Dream Crafting, the art of dreaming big, the science of making it happen, by Paul Levesque and Art McNeil, five skills for achieving any goal

The Power of Full Engagement, managing Energy, not time, is the key to high performance and personal renewal, by Jim Loehr & Tony Schwartz, achieving corporate success.

The Road Less Traveled, a new psychology of love, traditional values and spiritual growth, by Scott Peck, how to build up character and courage through facing our emotional problems squarely

The 7 habits of Highly Effective People, bringing back character ethics, by Stephen Covey, be proactive, begin with the end in mind, put first things first, think win/win, seek first to understand…then to be understood, synergize, sharpen the saw.

People Skills, how to assert yourself, listen to others, and resolve conflicts, by Robert Bolton,

Make The Right Decision Every Time, how to make the right business and personal decisions confidently, by Roger Dawson

Burt Burtonson covers drinking in todays show. What to and not to do while under the influence. This is my first Sketch.

RIP Joel Mendham. It was an honor to call you my friend, and an honor to have you as a part of this video.

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She is 18, and I’ve been told by a good friend of hers that she has low self esteem, and that many guys have taken advantage of her because of this and treated her like shit. She thinks she has so many physical flaws such as: -a muscular back, big chin, wide hips, pirogi belly. Also wants to get implants to double d’s when she already has nice firm D-cups. –She has the body of a women and doesn’t seem to realize the beauty in that. Tall figure, with great curvy hips and those dimples on the lower back. Very healthy weight and the so called pirogi belly is not fat at all. Just a healthy stomach. She is hard to talk with because she doesn’t like sharing her opinion with anyone scared she may hurt other peoples feelings. She only cares what other people say and think and having a low self esteem doesn’t allow her to see her what a great person she is. –She’s a kind, nice caring person who is nice to everyone except when it comes to herself. How can I help her believe she is pretty and her thoughts and feelings are just as valuable as anybodies.—–I just can’t stand it when these guys are using her just for sex. I don’t want to see it happen anymore.
Forgot to mention that I have told her she is beautiful, she won’t believe it that easily. How else can I help?

Try having a nice conversation with her. Tell her all these things that you’re writing to us here. Not only does she need to be told she’s beautiful, but she needs to know that you’re worried and that what she is doing is not good for her. You need to remind her of the consequences for those actions and what not.
Once you’ve had that talk with her, it is only her who can decide what to do in the end. It is her life and her body.

my sister had a relationship with her step brother. they split and she left home. he now has a new girlfriend and she has taken this really badly. she feels like this new girl is replacing her in the family home and has taken to self harming to make herself feel better. i live 500 miles away and have 3 kids. i am struggling to find ways to help her and am worried sick. what can i do to help?
just to add with regard to my first 2 replies…she has seen her doctor who has told her it cud take 7 months for her to talk to a professional about it and i have been to see her and she has stayed here but it does not seem to help

Take time out and visit her.

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Some Self Hypnosis Anchoring

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