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		<title>LGN [Prosperity] Get paid $777 daily with [LGN Prosperity]</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://i.ytimg.com/vi/zu6-HbwVjoc/2.jpg" align="left"/>http://TopLGNMentor.com [LGN Prosperity] 2&#215;2 Matrix was just launched by James Ward as the new addition to the [LGN] family. [LGN Prosperity] has a true team concept behind it, is affordably priced and worth looking into. The [LGN Prosperity] 2&#215;2 Matrix is a compensation plan based on the idea of 2 who get 2 you get paid. </p>
<p>http://TopLGNMentor.com</p>
<p>In order to get paid, a total of 6 people have to fill your matrix. That&#8217;s 2 on level 1 and 4 on level 2. You will receive spillover on your first level. Those 2 people could potentially be sponsored by someone above you. However, your 4 on level two will be up to you and your 2 on level one. The reason is because once your level 1 if full, you&#8217;re sponsor will cycle and create a new matrix waiting for you to cycle and follow.</p>
<p>Each time a matrix is completed, you will earn $777 and automatically follow your sponsor into the next matrix. What I will say is nice about this feature, is that you get to recycle members to help you cycle again which is quite nice.</p>
<p>However, in order to get the full benefit, you need about 3-4 solid marketers on your team. If you can achieve this, you can make it happen because the 2&#215;2 matrix is designed for speed, momentum, and synergy.<br />
Little Guy Network<br />
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Successful Lliving<br />
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prosperity<br />
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2X2 Follow Me Matrix<br />
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LGNRevolution.com<br />
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		<title>Self Help Books by Shirley Perkins</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 07:54:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>From Stress to Success &#8211; Self Development for Smart people&#8230;</title>
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		<title>Can you tell me anything that will break though my negative self-image and help my defenses against criticism?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 06:22:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Avoiding the abyss of the E-mail wars 
It’s hard to be a poet of renown.
To be respected by most of your peers
if some compare your writings to a clown
and question just what lays between your ears. 
What if they fail to see beyond the face?
The one you show the public, not the real.
Can you cast [...]]]></description>
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<br />Avoiding the abyss of the E-mail wars </p>
<p>It’s hard to be a poet of renown.<br />
To be respected by most of your peers<br />
if some compare your writings to a clown<br />
and question just what lays between your ears. </p>
<p>What if they fail to see beyond the face?<br />
The one you show the public, not the real.<br />
Can you cast blame on what your critic says<br />
if what you hide is hiding what you feel? </p>
<p>Perhaps the mask of mirth has had its day<br />
and now the time for grit and gore has come.<br />
So long, the Merry, Merry Month of May.<br />
Skip straight on to December’s wintry drum. </p>
<p>Misunderstandings may transcend the edit.<br />
It’s not what you have said; it’s how they read it?</p>
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		<title>do you enjoy personal development material?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I would like to write only what you want to hear about regarding personal development; how to manage time, how to have a vision, be more powerful in decisions, for example.  Would this information be important to you, and if so, what specifically would be of interest to you?
People seem to need guidance for [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would like to write only what you want to hear about regarding <a href="http://yourmindyourfuture.com" target=_self>personal development</a>; how to manage time, how to have a vision, be more powerful in decisions, for example.  Would this information be important to you, and if so, what specifically would be of interest to you?<br />
<br />People seem to need guidance for developing self confidence and drive,.</p>
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		<title>What is the relationship of PROJECTION and the LAW of ATTRACTION?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 15:53:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[They seem to conflict. How are they related? Does the law of attraction have anything to do with the principle of Projection? Thank you
5 hours ago
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>They seem to conflict. How are they related? Does <a href="http://yourmindyourfuture.com" target=_self>the law of attraction</a> have anything to do with the principle of Projection? Thank you<br />
5 hours ago<br />
<br />Well, Projection is simply projecting something to the universe, it does not attract back anything as it is only projecting&#8230; Law of attraction however is attracting something from the universe. If you&#8217;re using the law of attraction and truely believe in your desire then you are attracting things that can help you achieve that goal.Instead of projection, use affirmation and law of attraction to manifest your desires in life.</p>
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		<title>Self Harming.. Please Help!?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 15:53:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A few years ago, I started self harming. I still have the scars on my arm. A friend helped me to get passed  this. When I met my now-husband, he helped me too by supporting and just loving me. This was all I needed to help recover and stop doing it.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A few years ago, I started self harming. I still have the scars on my arm. A friend helped me to get passed  this. When I met my now-husband, he helped me too by supporting and just loving me. This was all I needed to help recover and stop doing it.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s been 4 years from the last time I did it. Recently, I have been going through a rough patch. I have PCOS so I am finding it difficult to conceive. My husband&#8217;s family is putting on a lot of pressure about other things too. They expect me to do things that make them happy but not me. I still do it for them and go out of my way to make everyone happy but at the moment, I don&#8217;t feel appreciated or loved. I still get &#8216;you are being difficult&#8217; or &#8216;you haven&#8217;t done anything for me&#8217; comments.  </p>
<p>My husband is wonderful. But he can&#8217;t help me cos he doesn&#8217;t know how too. I try not to involve him in anything cos I don&#8217;t want to stress him. It&#8217;s his family so I don&#8217;t want to put him in a difficult situation.</p>
<p>I am so unhappy and just feel like crying all the time. But it&#8217;s not helping. Yesterday, I felt like cutting myself again. The urge was so overwhelming. I had the razor in my hand but then I stopped. I don&#8217;t know why.. But today I want to do it. Self harming makes me feel good, it&#8217;s a way I can vent my feelings out without hurting anyone else. But deep down, I know it&#8217;s wrong. I hate the scars that it left last time so don&#8217;t understand why I want to do it again. My husband knows deep down that I am not happy but he doesn&#8217;t know about the self harming bit. I have no one to talk too. My family won&#8217;t understand and my friend isn&#8217;t around anymore.</p>
<p>Please advise.. What can I do? I feel very lonely and depressed..<br />
<br />First of all, I think that you should start talking to someone-whether it be a psychiatrist, therapist, counselor, etc. These are major issues that you just simply cannot work out on your own while you have so many people around you who are putting you down-either consciously or subconsciously. You should definitely get things under control again before you conceive. So many stresses can negatively affect you and your baby and may increase your risk of complications or miscarriages. </p>
<p>Secondly, I think that you should start taking AT LEAST one day a month and have a &quot;ME&quot; day. Just go out and do things that you enjoy. It could be anything from walking/shopping at the mall, taking a walk in the park, to just staying at home pampering yourself. Paying a little more attention to yourself can help tremendously. You can&#8217;t please everyone all the time, so why not take some time out trying to please/pamper yourself?</p>
<p>Thirdly, you should stand up right now and give your self a hand. You deserve it for being able to stop self-injuring the first time. Many people, like myself, struggle with it no matter what we do and we are not so successful. If you quit the first time, you can quit this second time, and when the next urge comes, you can beat that too! Even though your husband doesn&#8217;t know exactly what to do to help you, he&#8217;s still part of your &quot;personal support group.&quot;  Having a support group really helps a lot of people because then you KNOW that you are NOT alone in your struggles. If you have no one else to confide in, or don&#8217;t feel comfortable enough to confide in others, try joining an online support group. These groups are there for you 24/7 and know exactly what you are going through. The other nice thing is, it&#8217;s anonymous if you want it to be and you don&#8217;t have to worry about judgment. </p>
<p>While you are deciding how to form your support group, try finding an alternative to self-harm. You can try anything from snapping a rubber band, to shoving your hand in a bag of ice, hugging a tree, drawing a red line with a marker where you want to harm yourself, etc. You have to find the right one that works for you. Personally, I put the self-harm off for 10 minutes, and if I still feel like going through with it after 10 minutes, I put it off for another 10 minutes, and so on and so forth until I no longer wish to cause myself harm. </p>
<p>As far as your scars go&#8230;they may seem ugly or unsettling to you now, but each one tells its own story. If you&#8217;re like me, you can&#8217;t remember what each scar is for, but the ones that occurred when you&#8217;ve felt the worst or the strongest emotions while self-harming are still fresh in your memory. One day, when you have learned more efficient ways of channeling your emotions, I hope that you are able to look at your scars and remember those times to learn from them&#8230;to never let yourself become that low again&#8230;Those scars are a part of you, just like mine are a part of me. I am now at a point in my life where I am no longer ashamed of my scars. I choose to show them and talk about them. I want others to know about self-harm so that there is no longer this hushed stigma about it. I hope that you reach this point in the future. </p>
<p>Please take my advice and talk to somebody&#8230;and please take some more time out of your schedule for yourself. You can&#8217;t please everyone and you shouldn&#8217;t try. It&#8217;s just so tiring and you can&#8217;t keep it up for long periods of time. I hope that you have found at least some of this information helpful. </p>
<p>Take gentle care&#8230;</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://i.ytimg.com/vi/JUlvKHuLQ8w/2.jpg" align="left"/>&#8216;Just when the medical profession had given up on me and I on it, just when I seemed to be walled up in a life sentence of chronic pain, someone proposed a bizarre way out: sit still, they said, and breathe&#8230;&#8217;<br />
Teach Us to Sit Still is the visceral, thought-provoking and improbably entertaining story of Tim Parks&#8217; quest to overcome ill health. Bedeviled by a crippling condition which nobody can explain or relieve, he confronts hard truths about the relationship between the mind and the body, the hectic modern world and his life as a writer.<br />
Most of us will fall ill at some point; few will describe that journey with the same verve, insight and radiant intelligence as Tim Parks.</p>
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		<title>Self-Development: What and Why?</title>
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